curiousity,self criticism,change,stress,share your light

Curiousity = every one has some...
Self criticism = being hard on yourself...
Acceptance of who you are = just takes time...
Ability to change what you do not like about yourself first(self=improvement) = open-mindedness, moving on...
Share your light with others after you know what you are doing...PRICELESS!


Curiousity:

About what you are about...
About why you are you...
About what is inside your head...
About what is inside your body...
About your appearance...ie: what others see in you. Not what you look like.
About the world around you, and how you fit in, or don't fit in. Is it just your opinion of how you do not fit in? Are you being realistic?
About how others fit into your life,by association, or otherwise...


Self criticism:

The ability to look at the real you, not what you just think others might see on the outside...can you take an honest opinion from others? can you see that their opinions are just that, their opinions...and only that! that is their criticism of you through their eyes only...not necessarily what is real.
Look at how you present yourself to others...
Do you just copy their actions and ideas?
Do you just reflect their personalities, just to establish repoirte with them, to be like them, to please them?
Will others take you seriously if you continue to act like them, just to please them?

Do you catch yourself laughing like others just so you fit in with them?
Do you find yourself talking about the same things others do so you fit in with the crowd?
Or do you change the subject...walk away.
Are you that strong?


Acceptance of who you are:

Do you accept who you are? Can you? It is the only way you can change
who you are...
Acceptance of the realization of what and who you are, is the first step to finding the real you...
So find out who you really are...

Do you just go around doing what you are told? follower...passive person...?
Accept it, but do not criticize yourself now for it...you have let yourself become this way, as have countless others in this world...so do not let yourself become depressed over it.
You have the ability to let yourself get in this situation, and you have the ability to get yourself out of it, also..

Are you just a doer? And have a hard time with others who want to tell you how to live your life? Accept it, and be proud you can do things in the light of other's criticism...they are just jealous of your abilities and are trying to control you with their way of thinking...Take their criticisms "with a grain of salt" as they say...
Have faith in that your outcomes will be okay with yourself for now, as you move on to bigger and better things in your life.

Listening to others is okay, it doesn't mean you have to follow their pattern of thinking...thinking by itself will not get you anywhere, doing will...

By doing things you have thought about, even if you fail some of the time,
you will have removed that debris from your doubtful-self ,cleared it from your path in life, and can now trek-on with other things.



Self-improvement:

Now the fun comes in...making the necessary changes to improve your own life.
After you have accepted who or what you are...do you now feel the need to change some things about yourself?

Good...

Pick some little thing about yourself first, something not so noticeable to others but you feel you need to change...something that will make you feel better. it could be something as simple as a haircut, or have your nails done by a professional stylist...

do it!

Now accept that change as the new you...does it feel okay? Do you have some doubt about the change? good, this is normal...it is your mind telling yourself that you do not want the change, change is stress, you grew up with it...it is your stress, and yours alone...mine,mine,mine...ha,ha!

All the inputs into your brain prior to the change you just made were put there
over time...your mind accepted them as normal, you have been brainwashing yourself...wowsers! have no fear, we all do it, over time...the constant inputs, daily, of the same thing, becomes everybody's norms...
Do not sweat it!

You have the ability to overcome them, we all do...some of us just forget how...

After the simple change and your acceptance of it...feel some gratitude for it,
say some thank you-es , thank you, thank you , thank you...lol, ;>)
Feel better? You should. Be sure to put some extra emotion in the thanks.

The law of gratitude...if you are happy with something and show thanks for it, more of whatever you are thankful for will come your way...

If you are not grateful?

The law of in-gratitude...if you are un-happy with anything and this is all you feel, un-happiness...you will get more of what you are feeling, just the un-happiness...nothing else...

So you see , you have to see beyond the now, what you are or just think you are...to where you want or who you want to be, by accepting what or who you are now is the only way you can change things. that opens the door of self-improvement...

Once again off the top...

Accept who you are, what you are...for now!
Accept change...
Accept the new you...
Feel grateful...this knocks on the door of the universe and its abundance...
this knocking tells the universe you want more of the same...

Open the door to self-improvement...

How bad do you want to improve yourself?
Can you put some extra emotion into your desire to change...
The extra emotion beyond how you feel normally, everyday, is what it takes to let the universe know you desire something new in your life, and not the same old hum-drum circumstances of yesterday...the extra emotion is like a magnet to attract more
of what you desire. We tend to put more emotion into getting upset with how things
are not the way we want them, than into how appreciative we are with the way things
are, as they should be.

Do something different today, even one little thing, and put some real emotion
into it...Yes,Yes,Yes!!! it can even be transferred in print!!!


Share the light with others:

Here is the real kicker folks, sharing your joy...

Not the sorrows, there is too much of that in this life now. It is so easy to just follow the crowd. Sit around and just watch junk on tv...There are some good nature shows on though, at times , check them out get to know the real world...before it is gone; oops, some negativity slipped in there.

Sharing is the key to longevity...if you keep anything bottled up inside of you for too long you become greedy of the info or material things, and the stress that "someone might steal it from you", will get you in the end. We have so much stuff now-a-days we have to have storage units to keep it all in...So much that we forget what we have sometimes and we'll buy another of something we already
have, cause we do not feel like going through the shed to find it...
The same goes for ideas or thoughts , we keep them to ourselves thinking ,someday, we'll get around to making something from them, instead of sharing them with someone who can and will use them...the rest of the world deserves these ideas , so just let them out, share, more will come back to you later.


Sharing relaxes you, it is as if a burden has been lifted from your shoulders. Sometimes you have to let things bounce off the wall, or someone else, to get the real picture of your life...it may not be as serious as you thought to begin with, or it may be worse...

I feel that writing is a form of sharing , sharing with the universe, ie: the thoughts you have are already out there, you are receptive to them.
By writing things, thoughts, ideas, drawings, etc...you are taking them out of your mind, sorta like flushing your toilet, maybe that is a bad analogy, using a toilet to represent your mind...lol...
Let's try thinking of your brain as a hard drive in a puter...but not the main
hard drive...just a clone or secondary...The real brain is the universe, or God in my case...uh,uh,uh...stay open minded, remember we are sharing ideas here!

So if I take "my" ideas and put them to paper, or write them to my puter, I have effectively removed them from my immediate memory.
Thereby opening myself up for more of the same things i just wrote about.

We are full circle now, back to the law of abundance.
The same goes for speech...it is a means of expelling our thoughts on others, who may have the fortune or mis-fortune to have to listen to us.

Hey, i appreciate you for having read this far!